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Retirement in reality - 7 months in

For those I haven’t connected with recently, I retired 7 months ago after being a full-time academic, researching retirement planning for nearly 20 years. Now I am focusing on implementing my findings: for myself, for individuals and for organisations. As I promised when I retired, I am providing a month-by-month account of my findings from the other side. This month I explore the agony of health behaviours, the unrealistic nirvana of allocating set days to work and the role of reconciling retirement guilt.

Health behaviours

Last week someone asked me what the most surprising thing about retirement has been and I did not hesitate to volunteer just how challenging it is to catch up on all the health behaviours ignored while working. I want to acknowledge that I was coming off a pretty low base. I’ve been building up my exercise routine over the past 18 months but before that my only exercise was walking from the car park to my office (about 150m).

I thought 7 months of going hard on diet and exercise would be enough to see some real changes but in reality change is slow – very slow despite constant effort and attention. If I had the opportunity to go back and change one thing before retiring it would have been to incorporate many more of these activities into my weekly schedule.

Too many short walks and too many lunches spent woofing down processed food at my desk has taken its toll and my body is taking a long time to catch up even with a strict diet, 8000 steps a day, 2 HIIT classes, 1 Yin yoga. Last week I added in weight training twice a week. It’s not just the time but expense – adding in dietitians, personal trainers, class attendance and exercise physiologists begins to add up quickly.

Maintaining work interests

I’ve totally given up on the nirvana of creating work silos on specific days of the week. If I did that I think I would most certainly be missing the opportunity to do some interesting work and stimulating intellectual activities. The likelihood of opportunities coinciding with the only 2 days I’d set aside to work seems unrealistic now given the range of work I like to do and the different groups of people that I work with. Instead, I’ve moved more to a project-based approach.

I’ve always considered myself someone who likes structure and routine, so this felt a bit uncomfortable at first, but I’m becoming more attuned to planning out my week on a Monday around health and social activities. I’m focusing on health behaviours, social events and then work rather than the other way around. It was no surprise to me when the new UniSuper Retire with Purpose report identified 28% of people wanting to work part-time but only 8% do (page 13). I’m not sure if this is a function of people re-evaluating the role of work or there being fewer opportunities available. The Intergenerational report points to 38% of people aged 55-75 having trouble finding work in 2024-2025 (page 187) but at the same time projecting people working for longer with more part timers in the future, so there really is no better time for employers to jump on board. How do we get that movement started?

Retirement guilt

I think it’s fair to say that some of my past work behaviours have been driven by a strong work ethic that forced me to prioritise work. On first graduating in Adelaide back in 1987 while my friends were off enjoying gap years I was off applying to every graduate program around the country to get a foothold in the marketplace as soon as possible. During this month I commented on a LinkedIn post by Nigel Bartlett about the topic of retirement guilt and I was amazed at the number of people who viewed it – more than 3000. I wrote:

When you describe retirement guilt it sounds a bit like survivor guilt after redundancies. I've been outside in the sun today and after sitting in a box without any windows for 3 years it feels magnificent. I let the guilt dry up in the sun like a muddy puddle.

Perhaps deciding what work we want to do in retirement starts by reflecting on what drove us there in the first place. What work means then and now may be very different things but applying an autopilot approach might have us literally flying in circles. For me work now is driven by interests, applying knowledge, and intellectual challenge not climbing a corporate ladder or development opportunities. What did work mean to you then and what does it mean to you now?

 

Joanne Earl is a Psychologist and Honorary Professor of Psychology and Retirement Planning. You can read more about Joanne’s retirement journey via LinkedIn or visit her website: www.retirementdr.com.au.

 

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17 Comments
Max
October 15, 2026

There comes a point in life, usually somewhere north of 55, when you realise that, regardless of how successful you've been, how much you've accumulated, or how kindly fortune has treated you, there's probably more road in the rear-view mirror than through the windscreen.

And that's not a depressing thought. It's a rather liberating one.

You've spent decades working, saving, worrying about the markets, paying taxes and generally behaving like a responsible adult. Surely you've earned the right to be a little irresponsible, preferably somewhere with a good wine list, a decent view and absolutely no reason to check your emails.

Of course, financial security matters, but there's a danger in becoming so preoccupied with preserving your wealth that you forget what you accumulated it for in the first place. Nobody gets to the pearly gates and complains they should have spent more time reviewing their superannuation statements.

And then there are the grandchildren, one of life's great dividends, and arguably the best return on investment you'll ever receive. All the joy of watching children grow up, with considerably less responsibility and the wonderful luxury of handing them back when the batteries run flat. There's something rather special about seeing the world through their eyes, sharing their excitement, spoiling them occasionally and creating memories they'll hopefully treasure long after we're gone. Time spent with grandchildren is one investment that never suffers a market correction.

Life also has a remarkable habit of working itself out. And, if all else fails, Australia does have a government safety net, admittedly one unlikely to fund business-class flights or a decent Burgundy, but reassuring nonetheless.

The objective now shouldn't be to die with the healthiest balance sheet. It should be to arrive at the finish line with a collection of wonderful memories, a few good stories, children and grandchildren who remember you fondly, and perhaps a slightly depleted bank account.

After all, you can't take it with you, and the children will probably spend it on something you wouldn't approve of anyway. Far better to enjoy some of it yourself, particularly if it involves taking the grandchildren somewhere their parents wouldn't dream of paying for.

So travel, indulge, laugh, smell the roses, enjoy the grandchildren and order the good bottle. You've spent decades making a living, planning for the future and worrying about what might happen.

Well, the future has arrived. And it's about time you concentrated on living it.

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Joe
October 16, 2026

Well said, Max.

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Linda
October 18, 2026

Such a well written comment and I totally agree with your perspective. We are thoroughly enjoying our 5 month old, first grandchild.

I think a positive attitude and being grateful is essential to a good retirement.

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Window cleaning is a great upper body exercise
October 15, 2026

It’s not just the time but expense – adding in dietitians, personal trainers, class attendance and exercise physiologists begins to add up …

As a working person, time is short, so you pay for dietitians, personal trainers, exercise physiologists, gardeners, window cleaners…

As a retired person, time is plentiful, so do your own diet and exercise research, and your own gardening and window cleaning for the exercise.

You don’t need to pay.

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Mark
October 18, 2026

100% agree, eating healthy and getting fit isn't rocket science. Spend your money on fresh ingredients, better meats, a decent pair of trainers and google the rest.

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Paul McNamara
October 15, 2026

Do you really need a dietitian, personal trainer & exercise physiologists in retirement? If so, I'm stuffed.

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OldbutSane
October 15, 2026

Of course you don't (especially the first 2), but if you have abused or at least not shown your body the respect it deserved for the previous 30 or 50 years by not exercising or eating properly then you can hardly expect it to recover in 7 months (and unexpected side effects of the new healthy lifestyle are not surprising).

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Dr Joanne Earl
October 20, 2026

Hi Paul. OldButSame has it right. I dont believe anyone needs all these experts if they keep themselves well enough. The message is to get exercise and diet under control before it gets more difficult.

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Dudley
October 15, 2026


" change is slow – very slow despite constant effort and attention":

Quickest initial weight loss is due to metabolism of excess glycogen + water weight.
Glycogen stored in body: 0.5 kg normal, 1.0 kg carbohydrate-loaded; difference 0.5 kg.
Glycogen 17 MJ / kg.
Bound water 3 kg / 1 kg Glycogen.
Energy requirement 8 MJ / day.
Starving weight change due to glycogen only metabolism;
= 3 * 8 / 17
= 1.4 kg / day.
Time to elimination of excess glycogen;
= 0.5 * 17 / 8
= 1 day.

Fat 36 MJ / kg.
Starving weight change due to fat only metabolism;
= 1 * 8 / 36
= 0.22 kg / day.
More typical 0.1 kg / day due to eating while fasting and not starving.

"not just the time but expense":
Self directed slow hill walking and protein counting while minimising carbohydrate consumption is satisfactory substitution for paying.

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Jo Earl
October 15, 2026

Thanks for the analysis Dudley. Getting glucose under control with diet. Improving dicky knee with exercise plan. Like the idea of maintaining with self directed slow hill walking as a substitute. Will try that too for my 8000 steps. Will report back at 8 months.

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Dudley
October 15, 2026


"Improving dicky knee with exercise plan":

Re-build knee cartilage rather than wear it out if possible.

Cartilage / tendon is protein.

Protein is polymerised amino acids.

Making protein requires amino acids AND vitamin C in food.

Older people often ingest insufficient of either or both.

Digestion of protein to amino acids declines with age.

The old lose protein, see sarcopenia. Also myopenia.

Cooking gristly protein to gel pre-digests (hydrolyses) protein into shorter chained amino acids.

Long slow or pressure cook gravy beef / lab shanks converts gristle into gel.

MacKenzie's gelatin is a ready made source of 95% hydrolysed protein.

$4.1 / 100 g makes it cost competitive with other protein sources such as eggs (10% protein).

Ingesting 10 gelatin and 1 g vitamin C per day may be sufficient to notice a difference in a few days to a few months, but not immediately.

Most packet jellies contain mostly sugar and little protein.

To make a cup of tasty jelly:

In large cup or bowl add;
Essentials,
1 gram vitamin C tablet(s), crush to powder.
10 g MacKenzie's gelatine.
Optionals to personal taste,
2 grams citric acid.
5 grams white sugar.

Add 200 grams boiling water while stirring for 2 minutes (too slow = lumps, too quick = splashes)

Makes stiff jelly.
Add 50 grams ice to make jelly set quicker.
Add 200 grams cold water if prefer less stiff.
Refrigerate.

Desert or snack.

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Annabel
October 21, 2026

Clinical Dietitian here. Reducing the formation of muscle in the human body to such calculations is oversimplification. Muscle requires protein ingestion. Muscle does not equal protein. Muscle loss with ageing (sarcopenia) is multifactorial, due to (but not limited to) insufficient protein ingestion - ideally foods containing essential amino acids, adequate overall energy intake and strength training. Don't ignore cardiovascular fitness. Due to reduced absorption with ageing, even distribution of protein containing foods throughout the day would be ideal. Adequate fibre and foods that feed the microbiome are important too. All this needs to take into account individual health issues, preferences and readiness for change.
Dietitians train for many years and are obliged to maintain their knowledge with continuing professional development. They devise individual plans and work closely with other care providers to ensure that optimal information is provided.
Perhaps consulting a dietitian isn't so useless after all?

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Dudley
October 21, 2026

"Reducing the formation of muscle in the human body to such calculations is oversimplification.":

Simplest start is to calculate an estimate of how much is ingested minus how much is likely required.

Building requires sufficient building materials. Insufficient prevents building.

Then consider other factors.

Example:
'It takes roughly 10 mg per day of vitamin C to prevent fatal scurvy, and about 30 to 45 mg per day to cover basic turnover and maintenance in most adults.'

RDI is 50 to 100 mg / d.

Those quantities are less than the amounts needed for best health for some people.

1 g vitamin C / d is cheap and well tolerated.

At least effective it is a lolly.

At most effective it is a co-factor required for protein synthesis; cartilage, tendon, muscle, connective tissue.

'Vitamin C is an essential enzymatic cofactor required for the hydroxylation of proline and lysine during collagen synthesis. It keeps iron in its reduced ferrous (Fe2+) state, allowing prolyl and lysyl hydroxylases to stabilise the triple-helix structure of collagen.'

Worth wasting $0.05 / d if it is only a lolly.

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BeenThereB4
October 18, 2026

I worked as an investment adviser until retiring at 80 years.

Since retiring, major new activity was joining local Univ of Third Age (U3A). I attend two classes each week. Have met new people (out from my previous bubble). Keeps my neurons moving. I contribute to discussions and learn of others life experience. You should never stop learning.

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Freddie
October 15, 2026

I have a plan that keeps me active with minimum expense, I volunteer in organisations that require my attendance in the mornings doing admin or participation. Every afternoon is spent doing anything that takes my fancy .

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Richard
October 15, 2026

Excellent article. I am a every month reader. At 72 ,retired 12 years, male being active is the most important factor..I call it going to work, my daily excercise activities. Regards Richard..

jeff o
October 15, 2026

KISS - if you are healthy & wealthy with family & friends and interests, you are fortunate and effectively free to do whatever makes you happy in life and later in retirement.

There's no need for (self imposed) stress or post retirement dissonance/guilt - try giving/volunteering and do not expect any returns - indeed, give until it really hurts and you are likely still be happy! That said, I've seen many (old) people pass still working but happy at the time!

 

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