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How much does it really cost to raise a child?

Australians are having fewer children than ever. At 1.5 babies per woman, the fertility rate is at a record low. Many attribute this to the cost of having and raising children.

If this is true, it raises questions of intergenerational fairness and future planning for governments. What do we do about the young would-be parents who are opting out because it’s simply too expensive?

The problem with this assumption is that while it may feel true that childbearing must have become more expensive over the decades, it’s not that simple.

So what do parents have to fork out to raise children, how do we measure it, and are kids really that much more expensive now than they used to be?

Crunching the numbers

Calculating the cost of raising kids is a complicated beast that raises many questions for academics to consider. Is a second child less expensive than a first child? Are older children more expensive than younger children? Do higher income families spend more on children than lower income families, and what share of that spending is necessary compared to discretionary?

These are debates in the literature for which there aren’t necessarily clear answers, in spite of much research.

Researchers also contest whether we should talk about just the direct cost, or if we should also consider the indirect costs, such as the impact on hours in paid work or the loss of leisure time for busy parents. We focus here and in our paper for the Economic Inclusion Advisory Committee on the direct costs.

One way, and probably the more intuitive, is the “budget standards” approach. This puts a value on the cost of a basket of goods and services for a family with and without children. The difference is the cost of children.

This seems simple, until it’s not. For example, do you need a fourth bedroom for a third child? Do you need a bigger car? A larger fridge? Private or public school? Childcare or at home care? What about hand-me-down clothes and toys?

Another approach, which is our focus, is a survey-based statistical method (or “iso-welfare” in technical terms) comparing living standards of different households. We ask how much more income (or spending) is required to ensure the same living standard between a family with children and a family without children.

Living standards are measured by what share of total household income or expenditure is spent on basic items, such as food or utilities.

The logic here is that a family that spends a lower share (on average) on basic goods has a higher standard of living than a family that spends a higher share on basic goods.

The latest high quality survey on expenditure in Australia is now ten years old, so in our latest research we’ve taken a new approach. We use financial stress as a measure of living standards instead.

Using Housing Income and Labour Dynamics in Australia (HILDA) data, we model financial stress against income and a range of other household variables and estimate how much extra disposable income a family with children needs to maintain the same living standard as a couple without children. That extra income is considered the cost of children.

While there are many advantages to using this method, a major drawback is that it doesn’t give you an estimate for how much a family needs to spend, rather how much they do spend. Families may well spend more than what they strictly need to.

So, how much do families spend on children?

We estimate families spend about 13% of their disposable income on the first child and a further ten percentage points for each child after that.

For a working-age couple earning the typical after-tax income (around A$130,000 per year), that equates to about $17,000 per year for the first child and around $13,000 per year for each subsequent child.

That means to raise the eldest child to adulthood, the couple would spend about $300,000 over 18 years in today’s dollars. Subsequent children would be about $230,000 each.

Lower income families spend a higher share of their income on children, at around 17% for the first child and 13% for subsequent children. But these households spend a lower absolute amount on children.

Does age of the child change the cost? There is uncertainty around this, but our latest research indicates younger children and older children are moderately more expensive than middle aged (six to 12) children.

This finding contrasts with previous research and conventional wisdom that older children are the most expensive.

These estimates are not set in stone. There are different ways to estimate such numbers and they can differ depending on what definitions you adopt and methods you use to analyse the data.

Ok, do kids cost more now?

The HILDA dataset has been gathered over many years, so we can compare the cost of children through time, albeit not perfectly.

Single year samples are relatively small and subject to error, but that analysis suggests not a lot has changed with the cost of children since 2001.

Our research doesn’t provide clues as to why fertility rates in Australia have dropped (as they have in most developed nations). Other data such as Australian Bureau of Statistics income survey and financial stress data suggest real incomes for couples with children have increased over the longer term (although not by much, if at all, in recent years).

The lack of evidence here likely points to other factors driving lower fertility rates. Families may be delaying having children to focus on other pursuits, such as employment or education. It’s also more acceptable for couples, and women in particular, to choose to not have children.

Another possible reason is people could be being deterred by the perception of higher costs, instead of the actual cost. Or perhaps people simply want to spend their money elsewhere.

Calculating the cost of children is complex and imprecise, but it’s fair to say the evidence doesn’t show that the direct cost of kids is getting more expensive over time. Younger generations not having kids, or fewer kids, is likely related to many factors, but we can’t draw affordability down generational lines.The Conversation

The Conversation

 

Ben Phillips, Associate Professor, POLIS@ANU Centre for Social Policy Research, Australian National University

This article is republished from The Conversation under a Creative Commons license. Read the original article.

 

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28 Comments
Dudley
November 24, 2025


"I've raised a child on a single income (couple) with no family support and a renter." ... "Poverty trap-debt trap":
Difficult. Likely little waste in expenditure (cloth nappies?), additional income required to escape trap.

"(second income)":
Is Work From Home possible?

Stefy01
November 22, 2025

Isn't there a cost of living crisis?

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John Corbin
November 24, 2025

In reply to Dudley "hedonic CPI". Yes and real hedonic prices for housing have risen substantially, 3x-5x since 2001, location held constant, isolating pure price changes (size, rooms, energy rating, garage). So after adjusting for quality and inflation it is more difficult for a typical buyer in 2025 than in 2001.

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Dudley
November 24, 2025


"real hedonic prices for housing have risen substantially, 3x-5x since 2001":

Google AI:
'From 2001 to 2025, Australian hedonic home prices have seen significant growth, with the
median dwelling value rising by approximately 2.5 times'

Needs 'deeper dive' and careful consideration to find a relevant number.

Wages:

https://www.abs.gov.au/statistics/labour/earnings-and-working-conditions/average-weekly-earnings-australia/may-2025
Persons Full-time adult average weekly total earnings 2,086.30

https://www.ausstats.abs.gov.au/ausstats/subscriber.nsf/0/2D620E006E172CF7CA256B66007FA01A/$File/63020_nov%202001.pdf
All employees total earnings 678.40

Ratio 2025 : 2001;
= 2086.3 / 678.4
= 3.1

Google AI:
'In 2001, Australia's mortgage interest rates generally fell, starting around 7.5% in January and ending the year at approximately 7% by October.'
'In late 2025, the average variable mortgage interest rate in Australia is approximately 6.44%'

Overall, likely that wages increased at a slower rate than home prices, not disastrously but enough to reward adaptation. And there may yet be a home price correction that changes the view.

John Corbin
November 20, 2025

I think it has much more to do with the cost of shelter. Taken at face value you posit that it is no more expensive as a % of income spent to raise a child today than 2001. Ok but I think what young people do (and me if I was young) is look at the whole package that is required. The fact is that the two child cost over eighteen years at $530K looks a bridge too far for a couple with a combined yearly income of $130K and with now a median housing purchase price of $1M in most Australian major cities. I can say looking back at income and house prices at the time when I bought my house, versus that relativity if I was 25 today, I could not afford to buy the house I own and live in now.

Dudley
November 23, 2025


"combined yearly income of $130K and with now a median housing purchase price of $1M in most Australian major cities.":

With mort-gage 6% / y, 30 year term, 30% of gross income, gross income $130,000 / y, what that does afford is a mortgage principal of:
= PV(6%, 30, 30% * 130000, 0)
= -$536,828

Using the Australian Government 5% Deposit Scheme:
= (1 / (1 - 5%)) * 536828
= $565,028

Enough for 2 - 3 bed flat.

With the high cost of children, how many beds are enough?

"the house I own and live in now":

What was / is the Bunk of Dad&Mum potential of your house?
[ Avoid mort-gage by saving similar amount over 4 years from 90% of two average incomes combined $205,483 ]

John Corbin
November 23, 2025

I wish it was all as straightforward as a few mathematical calculations and Bunk of Dad&Mum assumptions Dudley. Our young peoples lives would be simple. Don't get me wrong, I'm not being critical or querying your figures. There are however any number of potential reasons why for many people what you've outlined is just not an available reality.

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Dudley
November 23, 2025


"any number of potential reasons why for many people what you've outlined is just not an available reality":

Preferring to spend, with borrowed money if possible, like almost everyone else being one.
Not being sufficiently focused to successfully save and invest fast enough being another.
Not having mature guidance or not good with numbers being yet more.

Spenders have had their path smoothed by the Australian Government 5% Deposit Scheme. Minimum wage couple saving 20% of income can save 5% equity in under a year.

Savers may survive a nasty crash in home prices with their cash intact and be positioned to buy as 'half' price, or not have their fully owned homes repossessed.
'Australia's household debt-to-income ratio is approximately 182% as of late 2024'

"I wish it was all as straightforward as a few mathematical calculations and Bunk of Dad&Mum assumptions Dudley.":

There's strength in numbers, pardon the pun.

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Dudley
November 24, 2025


Err;

Using the Australian Government 5% Deposit Scheme:
= (1 / (1 - 5%)) * 536828
= $565,028

Including the government 15% co-investment:
= (1 / (1 - 5% - 15%)) * 536828
= $671,035

Dudley
November 24, 2025


"I wish it was all as straightforward as a few mathematical calculations and Bunk of Dad&Mum assumptions":

There is a simple, low risk way:

Try the P-plate version of Bunk of Dad&Mum.

Set 3 month trial term with no guarantee of renewal.
At end of term, see if the P-plater(s) saved and invested enough and contributes enough to the household.
Enough being 80%-90% of after tax after super income not less than the minimum wage.

Average wage is required to save faster than the rate of increase of home prices.

John Corbin
November 24, 2025

In reply to Dudley, "strength in numbers response". The point you are making is not the point that I am making. The article is in relation to the cost of bringing up children, not whether it's possible or not to buy a house or how to buy a house although I did contribute that a 25 year old me would not be able to buy the house I live in now. The article posited that "analysis suggests not a lot has changed with the cost of children since 2001". I added what I considered to be a pretty basic complication to this assessment and brought into the discussion the added cost of shelter for the family. Essentially I stated that when the current cost of shelter is added into consideration I don't believe the relative cost of raising a child in 2025 is the equivalent of that in 2001. There is a major mismatch much in favour of 2001 and current costings work against young couples having children.

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Dudley
November 24, 2025


"The article is in relation to the cost of bringing up children, not whether it's possible or not to buy a house or how to buy a house":

My overall point is that there are adaptations possible to the cost of kids, a big one being the type of home, how it is purchased and how family help.

This is similar concept to hedonic CPI:
'A hedonic CPI is a Consumer Price Index that uses hedonic regression to make quality adjustments to prices over time. This method estimates the value of a product's characteristics, such as a computer's processor or a car's horsepower, to isolate pure price changes from those caused by improvements or declines in quality. By adjusting for quality, the hedonic CPI provides a more accurate measure of inflation than one that tracks only nominal prices.'

Comparing cost of kids across time based on unadapted (or unadjusted) 2001 costs is likely also less useful.

On-yer-own Cash on Knocker > Borrow Bigger > Bank of Mum&Dad > Bunk of Dad&Mum.

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Dudley
November 25, 2025


Err;

'gross income $130,000 / y'

'For a working-age couple earning the typical after-tax income (around A$130,000 per year)'

Net $130,000 / y is gross $159,400.

With mort-gage 6% / y, 30 year term, 30% of gross income, gross income $159,400 / y, what that does afford is a mortgage principal of:
= PV(6%, 30, 30% * 159400, 0)
= -$658,234

Using the Australian Government 5% Deposit Scheme and co-investment 15%, home price max:
= (1 / (1 - 5% - 15%)) * 658234
= $822,792

lyn
November 24, 2025

John, re 24/11 comment as can't reply under with 'like' system, whilst article is childraising cost it has Para: 'Crunching the Numbers', with sentence "This seems simple until it's not." ---- bedrooms, fridge, cars etc --- Dudley on point since shelter usually first goal. Prior, you commented first line, more to do with cost of shelter. If more approached as Dudley advocates ---life of deprivation for short time to save to minimise loan, then maybe higher birth rate. The only non-varying principle (don't mean cost) re children is shelter, the other principles are variable by choice ... cheap or dear, quality or not, frequency of non-essentials or none etc so only base to 'compare' is the non-varying, the rest is subjective so not easy comparison, whatever generation. Dudley often loses me on some calcs but not this one.

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Dudley
November 24, 2025


"deprivation for short time to save to minimise loan, then maybe higher birth rate":

That seems plausible. 2.1 instead of 1.5?

Dudley
November 24, 2025


"deprivation"; noun, 'Damaging lack of material benefits considered to be basic necessities in a society.'

I suggest:
Parsimony (Parsi-money?); noun, 'Extreme unwillingness to spend money or use resources.'

With free accommodation and $20,000 (90% saving) to $40,000 (80% saving) disposable cash, long way from going without 'basic necessities' such as food, local government taxes, electricity, water, sewerage, garbage disposal, ..., .

lyn
November 25, 2025

Dudley,
Agree your definitions.
Can attest ex 'returnee', single beds and no 5G Coverage considered deprivation thesedays by other generations. No complaints received though !

Robert G
November 23, 2025

How much does it really cost to raise a child ?
Simple answer - a lot, a big lot !! I've never tried to compute the total.
And it never stops.
With the rising costs of living in the past couple of decades, not to mention the cost of housing and medical bills, our child and grandchildren have had the benefit of the DadBank numerous times.
I often wonder what sort of financial world our grandchildren ( now 5 and 10 ) will grow up in.

Maja
November 23, 2025

I wonder what the birth rate per man is?

Climate change is also a factor. What kind of world will potential children be living in in 2050 when we reach 3 degrees of warming?

Tony
November 23, 2025

Determining the causes of poverty, and addressing them, are are in my opinion rather more prudent that merely accepting a created future of poverty for all. Those charting the course of the ship towards the obvious rocks and who steadfastly refuse to change course, are the cause and the effect. Learn from the past or be condemned to repeat it.

Jim
November 23, 2025

My wife and I raised 4 children, first one born 1972, fourth in 1984 on one income (mine): my income from teaching and acting, the latter for which I moved with family interstate. My income has never exceeded about $104,000 in any one year, but is/has been typically 10-20% less than that. I also worked in hospitality, childcare (After-school care), exam-marking, invigilating, casual relief teaching in schools and university, and language testing. I gained three postgraduate degrees along the way (one of the Masters I had to pay for), including a PhD. We have rented since 1987. All our children attended fee-paying schools for most of their school years. We rarely took holidays away travelling. All of our children have their own houses (not renting, unlike my wife and me), and they all have children, and have all travelled more than my wife and me - I the least. That does not disturb me. We receive a full pension now. I consistently put extra into super. I educated myself about super as much as possible. Around all these things I pursued acting (professionally) relentlessly, gaining income from that work a little above the average, which is by normal standards very low, similar to musicians, whose average income a few years ago was estimated at $6,000 p.a. (the general public has no idea - totally misleading Hollywood blah!!) We are managing ok. It's a kind of miracle. I guess resilience and keeping the diary full help. My wife has been 'a full-time housewife and mum'. She has enjoyed that in many ways. The Nineties were the hardest.

Retiree
November 23, 2025

It costs enough that you're stupid to plan on giving most of your super to them instead of enjoying a really good retirement!
Putting it another way. They're the reason you're poor.

Dudley
November 24, 2025



https://www.realestate.com.au/insights/are-higher-home-prices-forcing-more-young-adults-to-live-with-their-parents/

Proportion of young people, by age, by year, living with their parents:
https://www.realestate.com.au/news-image/w_1200,h_867/v1723442760/news-lifestyle-content-assets/wp-content/production/Proportion-of-young-people-by-age-living-with-their-parents-2.webp?_i=AA

Graph does not show if they are:
. Subsidised by Bank of Mum&Dad,
. paying rent, or,
. Banking the Bunk of Dad&Mum.

max
November 24, 2025

Got it, raising a child in Australia isn’t cheap. But here’s the punchline: it’s always been too darn expensive — except for the rich! Yet somehow, every generation does it. People fall in love, have babies, ignore the spreadsheets, and hope for the best. Economics may say “ouch,” but hope (and maybe a few hand-me-down nappies) wins out.

Paul R
November 24, 2025

Max,

But we're having a lot less kids, which is the point of the article.

Max
November 24, 2025

I understand and appreciate your point Paul, my comment is more tongue-in-cheek. Humans have a delightful habit of taking whatever’s happening right now and projecting it into eternity. If things are bad, we immediately assume civilisation is three weeks from collapse and we should start learning how to farm root vegetables. If things are good, we’re pretty sure we’re only moments away from becoming billionaires with abs. It’s just psychology: we’re wired to extrapolate today’s mood into the future, rather than zooming out and noticing that life tends to wobble, recover, overcorrect, improve, decline, and generally behave like a slightly drunk person on a unicycle. Long-term cycles? Far too sensible. We prefer vibes.

Dudley
November 25, 2025


'The New, Terrifying Costs of Raising a Kid in the USA.'
'From 0 to 18: $USA310,605'
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TnigZ4YGirM

Both similarities and differences make it interesting.

No mention of Bunk of Dad&Mum or equivalent, where fast saving delivers a fully owned home to couples of child raising substantially reducing financial stress and risk.

 

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